To Each Their Own
Online chatrooms, like Discord, are fantastic platforms for communication, bringing people together from all over the world. Naturally, people are bound to express their opinions (which they are entitled to). It's not uncommon to encounter someone sharing thoughts like:
Humanbeing3: Man, I can't STAND Windows.
And there's nothing wrong with this! Let's take a look at some definitions of an opinion:
dictionary.com:
merriam-webster.com:
In case you don't fully understand this definition, an opinion is something entirely and wholly subjective to each individual and is not to be taken as a fact.
Now that we have those pesky definitions out of the way, we can concur that you, yes you, are entitled to your very own opinion! Congratulations!
Let's take a look at an example of somebody poorly receiving an opinion:
humanbeing32:
otherhumanbeing47:
... What was that? Look at that horrible interaction where humanbeing32 was just expressing their own valid opinion on a piece of software, and then otherhumanbeing47 just decided to take it as an opportunity to start attacking humanbeing32 and relentlessly push their opinion on them. Here's an example of how this should've gone down:
humanbeing32:
otherhumanbeing47:
And if they wanted to continue the conversation EVEN further, they could maybe add:
otherhumanbeing47:
It's okay to have your own opinion! Everybody does, and more people need to be okay with that. Imagine the places otherhumanbeing47 will go now that they know how to accept humanbeing32's opinion and not get offended by it.
So, to summarize:
If someone says
"I love/think <thing>",
Instead of being offended, either keep your mouth shut or try to be an open-minded, valuable addition to the conversation:
"Oh, that's nice! I prefer/like <thing> myself."
Try to relate to them!
Other similar problems: The XY Problem, No Hello, Don't ask to ask.
Further reading: How do I ask a good question?,
or if you have more time: How To Ask Questions The Smart Way.
The person who sent you this isn't trying to start an argument, lmao. They are trying to help you understand how to handle opinions better. If this offends you, there's probably something wrong with you.